tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6365515767970470521.post3801978316017465493..comments2023-07-04T07:42:02.282-07:00Comments on Getting Spanked As Needed: DD BreakthroughAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05995947389039268878noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6365515767970470521.post-55137522256555611952019-03-16T21:41:16.953-07:002019-03-16T21:41:16.953-07:00My Michael does not play when it comes to real dis...My Michael does not play when it comes to real discpline. I know I'm in for it when he grabs that dam bammboo backscratcher and says. . . "Alright, Kim, you acted like you didnt have limits, so there's no swat limit either, ancke your jeans and knees your drawers, there's no warm up this time." Than he takes the flat part of the handle and starts in rapid fire instant intensity really hard for a real long time until I'm sobbing and sobbing. Last time was because I lied to him. I respect him and havent lied him since.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6365515767970470521.post-48046742012193015872018-12-30T22:32:56.018-08:002018-12-30T22:32:56.018-08:00Thank you so much for this plan. Is there a way to...Thank you so much for this plan. Is there a way to find the 5 or 7 day plan? I didn't see a link to them.Addisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02841564551499114308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6365515767970470521.post-29675075774222918542018-09-17T13:14:28.124-07:002018-09-17T13:14:28.124-07:00I absolutely love that more and more couples are v...I absolutely love that more and more couples are venturing in to this amazing and relationship improving/saving arena. I for one was unhappy, self loathing, unable to fully realize I was terrible at recognizing my own mistakes, flaws, shortcomings etc. as i had lived with abuse for long enough that nothing abiut me mattered <br /> to anyone. I had never been able to trust, let alone give any control (due to a complete and utter lack of any sense of ccontrol throughout childhood and through my first marriage) until I met my best friend and husband. He loved me enough and was strong willed and patient enough to stick around through my "testing" that constantly caused chaos to push him away to prove he wasn't going to stay with me anyway. He loves me and I absolutely love and trust him and because of so many things he has shown me, I have actually had no option but to become submissive to him, without even realizing it, without him realizing he was starting to take on the leadership or dominant role. He just wanted to love, protect, care for, and most importantly to him, make me happy in our relationship by the things he could do for me. He doesn't control me, hurt me (in a bad way), or do anything that isn't in my best interest, or the best interest of our family, marriage, and friendship. He guides me, expects certain behaviors and actions, and, when I need discipline, he lovingly doles out whatever encouragement, reminder, and/Or discipline is necessary. I am absolutely contented, calm, safe, confident, excited, and happier than I have ever before been. Make no mistakes, we have a partnership, amazing friendship, passion so intense I had no idea could truly exist, and love without uncertainty, fear, or doubt. Understanding one another, complete trust, and reciprocity of true caring and selflessness, damn I am a lucky lady as he is a lucky man. I wouldn't trade the life we have, the dynamics of our realtionship, or the many times my ads has been sore for anything in the world ;)Adtjdt++https://www.blogger.com/profile/11860615388287037263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6365515767970470521.post-21755374976586203562015-11-27T17:09:35.684-08:002015-11-27T17:09:35.684-08:00Last thing retard...I used to move ..jump off my w...Last thing retard...I used to move ..jump off my wife's lap and scream..not because I didnt want to submit....I wanted nothing more..I was simply mentally unable to because I was a novice....now I can submit and stay still during very intense punishments ..it took time and practice ....its not a power play fktard....its just the submissive needs help to be able to take it...remember a punishment spanking is meant to be agony from start to finish with no mercy...we crave these and the structure that goes with it...even though the punishments themselves are not fun.....get bent you vanilla bitch Sleightofhand82https://www.blogger.com/profile/16424181101933767229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6365515767970470521.post-13501521297028993162015-11-27T17:02:48.663-08:002015-11-27T17:02:48.663-08:00You are a DUMBASS that's how a dd marriage wor...You are a DUMBASS that's how a dd marriage works idiot....the submissive wants this ..but without training consequences for not taking your punishments without being restrained must be had...it is the submissives desire to be able to take it...but it is difficult...but when achieved ....has wonderful rewards....don't comment on shit you don't know about or participate in you dumb fuckSleightofhand82https://www.blogger.com/profile/16424181101933767229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6365515767970470521.post-32726001775253923242015-11-27T16:56:21.730-08:002015-11-27T16:56:21.730-08:00You are wayyyyy off defender...I am the submissive...You are wayyyyy off defender...I am the submissive in our DD relationship....when I am being punished for severe infractions, if I move...beg..or scream the count begins again...these severe pu ishments work absolute wonders for our marriage ...and while the punishments themselves hurt incredibally bad....staying still and quiet during my agony turns me on to no end later....I want to submit to taking my whippings and spankings ....I cannot describe the feeling when it is far more than you can take...but you do it anyway because you deserve it..creates a feeling of peace and calm..my attitude is better and we are far more loving with each other...your ignorance on how this works is apparent..so please refrain from giving your opinions on subjects you are clearly uneducated in. Sleightofhand82https://www.blogger.com/profile/16424181101933767229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6365515767970470521.post-11188789424921082702013-07-08T21:18:30.049-07:002013-07-08T21:18:30.049-07:00Okay, Number one, I'd just like to point out t...Okay, Number one, I'd just like to point out that when it comes to what people like in bed or are interested in sexually exploring I'm usually open-minded; provided of course that it's conducted in a safe environment with two (or more) enthusiastic, consenting adults. But this... I can't wrap my head around. Maybe my imagination just doesn't reach this far but then again maybe it's not me who's in the wrong here. I have read several of your posts and I am thoroughly disgruntled about your opinions and views. After reading this I was at my breaking point: "If she fights, kicks or tries to block you, she earns 50 rapid swats with the most painful implement you possess. This is imperative to teaching her how to submit to you." Uh, no. If your wife tries to block of fight you it usually means she doesn't want to "submit". I'm all for BDSM but what I read here is not submitting to your Dom, giving him control of your body and soul and trusting him to fulfill your fantasies and desires. This is fueling your husbands ego and enforcing punishment because of the breaking rules that, to me, seem like are both part of an unfair and unhealthy power play and can be described as thinly veiled domestic abuse because of the humiliation that has been described on this site. I respect the constitution of marriage greatly but what you have here is not a marriage. Marriage may have hard times but your supposed to talk through your problems and come to a solution or compromise. Not bend one another to the other's will. That's not a healthy marriage. Even in Dom/Sub relationships the participants came come to some kind of compromise or admit one was in the wrong. What about the husbands flaws, do they go unnoticed and unpunished? Doesn't he have some traits or kinks that need to be wheedled out? The world is a two sided street. Accept it. <br /><br />Sincerely and without regret,<br />"The Defender"Defenderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15941973629255845513noreply@blogger.com