It's a New Year!

The holiday season has been hectic and crazy for me, but I do have some stories to share, one in particular involving a brand new hair brush I received for Christmas.  I'll try to start posting again this week.  I hope everyone had a spanking good Christmas and New Years and that your resolutions, like mine, are effective and prosperous.

A Very Merry Shade of Red

The holidays are a hard time of year for me because I get so overloaded with stuff to do and getting ready for Christmas just gets tiring.  Because of this I get cranky and last night my husband had had enough of my crankiness.  He waiting until our kids were in bed and then he said to me, "Go upstairs, pull down your pants and stand in the corner and wait for me."

I said, "Why?!!!"

He said, "Because you need an attitude adjustment and I'm sick of being treated disrespectfully."

I was pissed off.  I stormed upstairs and stood in the corner but I didn't pull down my pants.  I was going to show him!

When he came up and saw that I hadn't done as he asked, he went to the closet and got a plastic hangar.  The plastic hangar stings like hell and is pretty silent.  He then pulled a chair into the center of the room and sat down, instructing me to come over to him.  I did and while he told me that he was going to not only punish me for my bad attitude and crankiness, but also for my disobedience, he unhooked my jeans and pulled them down.  He then pulled down my panties and ran his index finger quickly over my pussy.  "I was going to pleasure you tonight, but it seems you're more in need of a hard spanking."

"NO!" I said, "I would much rather you pleasured me."

"Maybe you should think about that next time you decide to disobey."  With that, he pulled me over the top of his knees and spanked me with the hangar.  I tried to block him a couple of times which resulted in more swats.  I don't know how many swats he gave me, but it was long and hard enough that my butt was on fire when he sent me back to the corner and went to fetch the Loopy Johnny.  That's the whip he uses for my language and for my attitude when we have to be quiet.  This time he had me bend over the bed and he stood behind me and gave me a long beating with the Loopy Johnny.  He told me he wasn't going to stop until I cried and was truly remorseful and he sure didn't.  When I finally sobbed into the pillow and said I was sorry, then he put me back in the corner to think about it.  My butt was burning and felt red hot to the touch. Even today when I sit down I can still feel a stinging sensation on my cheeks.

He informed me last night laying in bed that it was time for us to do another jump start program, which means I'm going to get a spanking every day for a while.  He says my attitude needs to be checked and kept in line and there is evidence to prove that a spanking a day keeps the crankiness away.  He's right, though I don't like it.  It looks like my butt is going to be a very merry shade of red for the holidays.

Malled at the Mall

I got a spanking yesterday in public.  I don’t think anyone saw, but they could have.  I deserved it but I wish my husband would have waited until we were home.  We went shopping at a local mall and I was exhausted.  I hadn’t slept well because he had been traveling and I just don’t sleep very good when he’s gone.  He wanted to do some holiday shopping and I didn’t feel like it.  After about an hour of dragging me from store to store, I got mouthy and he had finally had enough.  In Nordstrom’s he pulled me into the dressing room and gave me a private warning stating that if I didn’t improve my attitude quickly, he was going to take me into the bathroom and give me a stern beating.  Needless to say, my attitude didn’t get any better. 

 

He took me by the hand and led me to one of the “family” bathrooms.  They are single rooms with doors that lock.  The moment I saw where we were going I began to beg and promise him I would be better, but it was too late at that point.  I could see the frustration and anger in his face.  He took me inside, slid the bolt to lock the door and took off his belt.  Then he told me to drop my pants and bend over and place my hands on the wall in front of me.  I started to object but realized any objection was going to make my punishment harder.  I pulled down my jeans and slid my panties to my knees and then put my hands on the wall like he asked.

 

“Why are you being disciplined?” He asked.

“Because I’ve had a bad attitude,” I replied.

“Have I asked you to improve your attitude?”

“Yes.”

“How many times did I ask you?”  He asked.

“At least three or four,” I answered.

“Didn’t I take you to lunch as promised?”  He said, and he had.  He had taken me to one of my favorite little Mexican places near the mall.  I had a margarita which probably added to my feeling tired.

“Yes,” I said and then before he could say anything else I told him I didn’t want to be spanked in public and that I was worried someone might hear.  He said he didn’t care and that he’d take me into the middle of the mall and paddle me right there in front of everyone if that’s what he needed to do to get his point across.  After that, I didn’t argue.

He gave me twenty fast slaps with his hand on my bare bottom and I knew that was just to warm me up for the belting that was coming.  The slaps echoed in the room and I tried not to cry out.  Then he stood back and brought his belt across my bottom.  It stung and I yelped the first few times.  He whipped me hard until I broke into sobs, apologizing. 

My bottom was still super hot when I pulled up my pants.  “We’re not done,” he said sternly.  “When we get home you’re going straight to the corner and then I’m going to give you a hard spanking so you’ll remember to watch your attitude going forward.”

We made it as far as the car before my pants were around my knees again and I was bent over the back seat for a hard and fast hand spanking.  Sometimes I just can’t control my mouth.  Thankfully, no one was walking by at the time because they would have thought he was beating me.  He opened the front and rear car doors and I bent forward over the backseat.  He spanked me hard and I could feel his frustration.  He made me ride home with my pants and panties down.    I cried most of the way home.  I was mad at myself and my butt was on fire against the material of the seat.  Worse still was the anticipation building in my stomach, knowing that right when we got home I had another walloping coming. 

The kids were at school so he didn’t wait to get me upstairs.  The minute we walked into the kitchen, he grabbed a spatula and bent me over the counter.  This was the hardest paddling yet and after a ten minute whipping I was sent to our bedroom naked.    He came in a few minutes later and talked with me and rubbed my red bottom.  I felt calm and peaceful.  It’s amazing how his discipline in my life makes me feel so much better.  A good paddling, or three of them, had helped me find my smile and for that I am very thankful.

 

Happy Spanksgiving!

Happy Spanksgiving everyone!

 

Sometimes discipline has to be administered even on a holiday.  Looks like I'm on my way to the bathroom to get a quiet paddling.  I dropped an accidental F-bomb and I know my husband caught it because he gave me "the look."  Now, I'm waiting for him to come find me and tell me to go bare my bottom and wait for him.

Waiting is so hard sometimes.  I know I deserve what's coming and I want him to hold me accountable, but at the same time, the silent loopy johnny whip really hurts.

Me and my big mouth!

 

Happy Spanksgiving!

Baring It All

This is a happy, happy, happy Thanksgiving for me!  My husband downloaded the new Elise Dugar Episodes book for me, called BARING IT ALL.  Oooooh, it's good, good, good!!!

Elise gets spanked on the rooftop of the hospital where she works.  It's an awesome scene and sexy, very, very hot!

 

I just love Susan Sanchez stories. I hope you guys like them as much as I do.  Of course it doesn't hurt that they cost less than a buck too, and the fact that they not only get me hot but they get my hubby going too.  It's a win, win, win for us!

You can view the book here.

New Favorite Pics

Some of my new found favorite pics.  Hope you enjoy and have a very happy holiday season!

 

 

 

Submissive Susan

I am excited to share part of my conversation with Susan Sanchez, author of the Elise Dugar Episodes, a short story series on submission and domestic discipline.  She was very entertaining and I can’t wait to read her next books.  She zeros down on the true sensuality of submission and dominance in a way that I think a lot of writers miss; but that’s because she has a better understanding of it than most.  Susan Sanchez isn’t just an erotica writer, she’s a believer in the baring the bottom for the sake of love. 

 

What made you decide to write about submission and dominance?

 

I have seen personally and through others the benefits of this type of relational equilibrium, so I thought I would put it into words through short stories.

 

 

     Are you going to write more than the Elise Dugar Episodes?

 

Yes.  I’m actually writing a full-length novel about this type of balance.

 

 

     Would you consider your work to be similar to Fifty Shades of Grey?

 

No.  I enjoyed reading that series but the kink got a little old for me after a while.  I found myself skimming through those parts to get back to the story.  For me the hottest scenes in that series were the ones where she was spanked, plain and simple, without all of the tying up.  My books don’t include bondage.  They are simply about the freedom that comes with submission and the harmony derived from a submissive/dominant relationship.

 

                I love your books.  I, too, have felt that a lot of the books out there don’t realistically depict the domestic discipline side of things.  What do you think?

 

They don’t or at least most of the ones I’ve encountered.  There are some good non-fiction books on the subject but I haven’t seen really good fiction books.  They usually focus on the sexual activity and I understand why, because sex sells; but I don’t think the sex should be overly done as it is in so many of these types of books.  Submission and Dominance, when in effortless balance, in and of itself, has a deep sexual element.  My hope is to portray that sensuality in my books without having to be overly graphic in nature.

 

     Are your books selling well?

 

Yes.  It’s exciting to see that so many people are enjoying my stories and are asking for more.

 

        Do you get spanked on a regular basis?

 

I’m not sure how to define “regular” but yes, I know my place over the knee; and I do believe it is often a necessity.

 

     Have you experienced everything you write about?

 

That is a good question.  Yes, I have, with the exception of the fact that I’ve never tried to throw myself off of a balcony and I haven’t had sex with a hot fireman.  LOL.

 

     What is your most dreaded spanking implement?

 

The paddle with the holes in it.

 

     Why do you think spanking is so important in a relationship?

 

Well, for many of the same reasons you state in your blog.  It alleviates the feeling of being overwhelmed, helps adjust perspective, is emotionally calming, reduces tension, increases trust, gives a feeling of safety, proves a person is notices, accepted and loved, increases sexual bonding and ultimately brings partners closer together.  Sometimes love has to be tough love.  Often times tough love is the strongest of all.

 

 

     What would you like to say to my blog readers?

 

First, thank you for your interest in acquiring balance through submission and dominance.  Some of the happiest couples I know are those that employ this philosophy in their lives.  I wish you that same fulfillment.  Second, thank you for reading this interview and for your interest in my books.  Please tell your friends about my books.

 

     Where can we connect with you?

 

People can reach me on Facebook .  In fact, I would love it if you would “Like” my author page on Facebook.  You can also email me directly at AuthorSusanSanchez@gmail.com

 

You can also visit my Amazon Author page for more information on my books.