Kindle Spanking

My husband bought me a new kindle because I dropped and cracked my old one.  Boy,

did I ever get a beating for that!  My bottom was sore for days but it's made me VERY careful about handling my new one.  Now that I think about it, when I broke my kindle I got a caning every day for one week straight.  My bottom was bruised but I learned a lesson.  Anyway, a friend told me about a book and I downloaded it the other day.  Believe it or not, I don't like to read erotica books.  It's just too much, too often and too overboard, but I do like romance books with a hint of the dominance and submission woven throughout.  THAT turns me on.  So, I read this book and it was hard for me to put down.  In fact, I got a spanking because I didn't do a bunch of stuff I was supposed to do because I was reading this book.  He came home and saw that dinner wasn't made, the breakfast dishes were still piled in the sink and the laundry wasn't even started, and over his knee I went.  Fifty swats for every task not done.  Then I was sent to the corner to think about my punishment.  When he caught me trying to sneak my kindle into the corner, it was upside down and fifty more swats.  Lesson learned. 

So, I'm going to recommend this book but I also recommend that you not get obsessed like I did and end up in the corner or bent over the bed for a solid caning.  It's not the typical book I normally read, which is usually straight romance.  This one is more of a suspense romance with a lot of action in it.  In fact, it had so much action that my husband even liked it and said he thought it should be made into a movie.  Just because he liked it didn't get me out of being punished for not getting stuff done though.

Anyway, there are chapter scenes that deal with the whole idea of spanking and discipline.  It made me hot reading it.  It's not like Fifty Shades of Gray, so don't expect anything like that.  It's more subtle but in there enough to make you want more.

The book is called House of Lies and it's by S.R.Claridge.  I'm now reading another book by this same author called Tetterbaum's Truth and it has a scene where a man lifts up a woman, tosses her over his shoulder and gives her several warning swats on her bottom.  I'm wondering if all of her books incorporate some sort of dominance and submission?  If so I'm going to scarf them up.  I found the author online and emailed her to ask if all of her books incorporate an element of male dominance and female submission, but I haven't heard back yet.  I'll keep you posted.

Here's the author website if you want to take a look:  www.AuthorSRClaridge.com

Here's a pic of the book:

I downloaded it from Amazon.  Hope you like it as much as I did, but remember to stop reading and do your chores too!!

Back to School Submission Schedule

I’m laying across the bed with my bear bottom exposed.  He’s instructed me to blog about what we’ve discussed and after my blog is posted, he will begin my punishment.  I’ve earned a big one and he already said it was going to be long and hard.  It’s the beginning of a new school year and the start of a new spanking program for me and my husband.  Every summer my attitude gets worse and even though he punishes me after the kids go to bed sometimes, it seems I know I can get away with more during the summer.  That all stops today.  Here is what the next month will look like:

 

Every morning after I take the kids to school, I go upstairs, strip naked and stand in the corner until he comes up.  Then I will receive a solid hand spanking and a whipping with his belt for any punishment items.  If I’ve been really out of line he’ll finish up with a caning.

Me and my sore bottom head back to the corner for three minutes.  If I say anything or try to leave the corner we start over at the beginning.

After three minutes, I have to come to him, place myself over his knee and ask to be spanked.  This, as most of you know, is the first lesson of teaching submission; make the person ask to be punished.  At this time I will confess to him everything for which I deserve punishment and he will spank me again using whatever tools he decides.

At 12:00 sharp I am to strip naked again, come to his office and ask for another spanking.  This is my attitude reminder spanking and will be done in his office over his knee with the wooden paddle.  This is a minimum of 50 hard and very fast swats.  I know I will cry for sure.

At 2:30 sharp before I leave to pick up the kids from school, I am to take all of our tools to our spare room in the basement, not far from his office, lay them out on the bed and bend over the bed with my bare bottom exposed and wait for him.  This spanking will be specifically to remind me to keep my language in check around our children and to focus my attention where it needs to be while they are home. 

As you know, it is an important step in submission to not only ask for a spanking but to be told to go to different rooms, places, positions and to be obedient to those requests.  Obedience is a big step in learning submission.  As I lie here naked on the bed typing this, it is out of obedience to him.

 

Any insubordination or infraction that occurs after 2:30 will be handled after the kids are asleep, at which time I will be taken to the basement and paddled thoroughly. 

 

This is our discipline and submission plan for weekdays for the next month.  When he travels, I will be expected to self-discipline 2x per week and send him the videos.  On weekends he will make up for being gone.  By the end of September, my bottom will be sore but our marriage will be better and I will be happier with myself. 

 

It’s time now.  He’s rubbing my bottom with his hands, getting ready to warm it up.   

Waiting is the Worst

Sometimes waiting for my punishment is the hardest part.  I just want to get it over with but he makes me sit and wait, knowing I'll be stewing over it all day.  I feel myself swell with desire and I can't help getting wet.  At the same time my stomach twists into nervous knots.  I don't look forward to the painful spanking, but I do love the release and the warmth that floods me afterwards.

Right now I am waiting for him to call me to the spare bedroom, strip me naked and place me in the corner where I'll have to wait until he thinks I am ready to receive my punishment.  When I have been really bad, he spanks me in the spare bedroom instead of our bedroom.  I know I have a beating coming.  He's already told me it has been long overdue and my attitude needs severe adjusting.  The thing is, he's right and I want him to adjust me.  I'm a better person when I'm submitting to him.

Here he comes now.  I'll post about it afterwards.  Wish me luck.

Submissive Self-Spanking

My husband is teaching me how to self-spank so that I can do it when he is traveling.  It’s hard, but he has set definitive parameters and has made me do it in front of him several times now.  The other day he bent me over his desk and placed the whip in my hands and then instructed me to administer 25 hard lashes to my bottom.  He watched and approved the technique and then put the wooden paddle in my hand for 25 more swats.  Last, it was the cane, 25 more swats.  After 75 swats my arm was tired and my bottom was bright red.  He then determined that if he is to be gone longer than 5 days I will be expected to administer at least one maintenance spanking to myself, record it and send it to him for approval.  He also said my spankings ought to be as hard as his and if he comes home and my bottom is free of spanking signs, he will not be happy.

I don’t mind disciplining myself in front of him, even though it was embarrassing at first.  He is doing it for the betterment of our marriage and our family.  I cannot go too long without discipline, we both know it, so this was the only option.  We could buy a spanking machine, but they’re hard to hide and expensive or we could have one of our friends come over and punish me, but that is too awkward.  It is better this way, for him to teach me and then to discipline me himself when he gets home. 

Before and After

It’s important to continue a discipline spanking AFTER orgasm because that’s when the message is really driven home.  I know this is true because I’ve experienced it.  The times when my husband has spanked me and then we’ve had an orgasm together and it’s over has left me unfulfilled and rendered the punishment inadequate.  The orgasm sort of erases the memory of the pain.  Sometimes the sexual build up of tension makes the spanking more bearable and becomes a distraction which is why we don’t see drastic behavior changes.  Now, my husband gives me a spanking and when he senses that the sexual tension is distracting me, he either instructs me to masturbate or he brings me to climax.  Immediately when my orgasm has simmered down, he turns me over and resumes my punishment.  This time, there is no distraction and every slap on my bottom is felt and his message is driven home.  Effective punishment must be done before and AFTER the orgasm. 

Truly His and Truly Loved

My attitude and behavior has been less than desired the past week and today began my punishment.  My husband travels for work and sometimes things just build up and I get overwhelmed and then my disrespectfulness skyrockets.  I don’t know why I do it, but sometimes I just can’t hold my tongue.  During his last trip I blew up at him on the phone and said nasty curse words at him.  I didn’t treat him with respect at all.  He told me when he returned home that he was going to correct my mouth and my attitude, but that warning didn’t stop me.  I guess I thought it was an idle threat, but boy was I wrong. 

This morning after I took our kids to school and came home, he was waiting for me in the kitchen.  Before I could pour my coffee he took me by the hand and led me upstairs.  On the bed he had already laid out all of his spanking tools.  I knew I was going to be punished, and hard.  What’s worse, I knew I deserved what was coming.

He told me to undress and then bent me over his knee and began warming up my bottom with his hand.  He told me that I had a good walloping coming and that because of my ongoing attitude and the curse words I used, this was going to be a week long punishment.

This morning was day one and my bottom is still hot and red.  This is the punishment we laid out together as a reminder to me that, no matter the circumstance, I am not to treat him so poorly.

Every morning after I return from taking the kids to school, I am to go straight to our bedroom, unclothe and bend over the bed with my bare bottom exposed.  I am to wait in this position until he comes to correct me.  Like today, I will be paddled with every instrument, the whip, the cane and the paddle.  After I am thoroughly spanked I will be sent to the corner for five minutes to think about my punishment.  When the five minutes is up, I am to come to him and ask him for another spanking.

This is almost the hardest part, asking him to spank me.  It’s so humiliating even though I know I deserve it and need it. 

Then, each afternoon after lunch, I am to bring a tool to his office, which is in our basement, bare my bottom again and tell him why I need to feel his disciplining stroke on me.  Today, he bent me over the chair in his office and gave me a long, hard paddling.  It hurts so much more when he goes fast.   The fast swats sting more.

I know he is teaching me submission and I am grateful, even though my bottom is throbbing.  He said he wants me to be reminded of my behavior every time I sit down and believe me, today I have been reminded.  It’s amazing how quickly my respect for him returns, almost the moment he places me over his knee.   His strong hands spank me out of love and concern for us and me and who we are and I know our marriage would not be as strong if he didn’t have what it takes to keep me in a good place.

His strength in disciplining me makes me love and respect him so much.  When he warms my bottom, he warms my heart too and I am happy to be with a man who is so strong and manly and tender all at the same time.  Even though I don't like it, when he spanks me, I know that I am truly his and truly loved.

 

Changing My Mindset

This morning I got a spanking that even I must admit was well-deserved.  I've been impatient with my husband and have copped an attitude.  It's hard though when he travels and I am left to handle the home, the kids and everything day-to-day on my own.  I get overwhelmed and lonely and I sometimes start to resent him.  I know he makes all of the money so sometimes I feel trapped in my world.  Even though I love my life and I'm blessed in so many ways that I can't even explain, all of them undeserved, I still sometimes feel like I'm suffocating.  It's hard to break out of this mindset and I start to even hate being around myself when I get like this.



This morning I was in that mindset and my husband had had enough.  He called me into his den where he works when he is working from home.  There's a small cushioned chair in the corner and he had turned it around so that the back was facing the middle of the room.  He told me to pull down my pants and bend over the back of the chair.  I started to complain and he swatted my bottom and told me my unwillingness to submit just earned me 25 extra swats.  Reluctantly, I pulled down my jeans and panties and bent over the chair.

He rubbed my bottom while he lectured me on my attitude and I felt like crying already, knowing what was coming.  He told me that my attitude was hurting our marriage and our family, and I knew he was right.  "What should we do about this?"  He asked.  "Are you able to stop this attitude on your own?"  He asked.  I didn't answer him at first and he swatted me twice with his hand.  "Are you able to stop this attitude on your own?"

"No," I whimpered.

"Then, what must we do about it?" He asked again.

"You should punish me for it," I said.

He rubbed my bottom again.  "I don't like to punish you," he said.  "But, our relationship and our family peace is more important than my dislike of having to discipline you.  Do you understand that?"  He asked.

"Yes," I said.

Then he explained that he was going to give me a long and hard spanking so that I would remember that my attitude effects everyone in the household and that I need to keep it all together. 

He started with his hand and spanked me until my cheeks were very red and hot.  Then he whipped me with the strap until I began to cry.  Then he pulled me over his lap on the sofa and spanked me hard and fast with the wooden paddle.  The faster he spanks me the more it hurts and I cried hard.  Last, he had me lay down on the floor with my bottom pushed up into the air and he caned me 20 swats.  This left tiny bruises on my bottom, but my soul felt light and free and my attitude and outlook on life has greatly improved.

Instead of corner time, we both orgasmed and then he held me for a few moments.  When that was over, he rolled me over in bed and gave me a reminder spanking with his hand.  50 more rapid fire lashes. 

I'm smiling now and so is he.  I'm so grateful that he knows when to take the reigns and bring me to a better place.