I can get pretty cranky and sometimes I just get upset and
mad and I stay that way. It makes me
hate myself really. I’ve been in a mood
lately and my hubby got tired of it. But
before he could even punish me for my sour outlook I burst into tears. I didn’t do it on purpose, even though I know
that makes it harder on him to punish me.
We talked and decided that I need help controlling my emotions,
especially when I’m frustrated and angry.
Anytime I’m mad I fight being spanked even to the point of kicking him,
which results in a longer, harder beating ultimately. I don’t know why I do it, but sometimes the
anger gets the best of me. We decided
that controlling my emotions was going to be top of my list for a while and he
is going to help me by putting in place some small steps of stress release and
submission.
You guys all know that submission and stress go hand in
hand. It’s almost impossible for an
upset, agitated and stressed out woman to easily submit her bottom for a
paddling. We’re not wired this way, but
there are things that help us submit easier and with less of a fight. These things have to be done consistently or it’s
a waste of time and effort.
Here’s what has worked wonders for us. I’m happier and more peaceful and I sleep better
and feel less stress in my life. I know
it will work for you if you take the time and make it a priority in your
marriage.
Step 1: Every morning,
either before work or after taking the kids to school, before your day gets
started, the wife strips completely naked and lies on the bed with her bottom
exposed. This is similar to corner time,
only she is lying down, exposed and awaiting a whipping. This gives her time to think about her
mindset, her emotions, her attitude and her behavior. She should lay in this position a minimum of
3-5 minutes, enough to let the upcoming discipline sink in and let her insides
get tingly with anticipation.
Step 2: The husband
needs to stand where the wife can see him.
He should be holding his belt and address her, explaining to her that he
is going to give her a belt spanking (one of the most painful) to relieve the
stress that builds up inside of her and causes her to misbehave, feel
embittered and angry. This spanking will
be to tears which means he will not let up until his wife is sobbing and
sorrowful. The stress is not released
until the woman breaks down emotionally.
My husband had trouble with this the first few times because I was
stubborn and it took me a while to cry, now I cry easily. A belt spanking should cause her to cry
somewhere between 25 and 200 lashes depending on how stubborn she is.
Step 3: Send her to
the corner immediately without any sex play.
Her pussy will be hot and wet from the anticipation of sex and from the
sensation of your authority, but it’s important that you don’t have sex
yet. She needs time to think about the
spanking and to process in her mind why she was whipped and allow it to shape
her attitude moving forward. This is a
very important step. Anytime my husband
didn’t send me to the corner after a beating, the message didn’t sink in. A woman needs time to be introspective and
apply the discipline to her behavior.
Step 4: Engage in sex
play if you both want but with the understanding that her beating is only half
way done and that after she orgasms you’re going to finish the whipping. This is important for her to hear and to know
that this is not a game to the husband.
She needs to understand that she is not being spanked as a form of
foreplay but as a strict discipline related to her attitude and behavior. Nothing proves that more than a whipping
right after you have both peaked. Before
you have sex, tell her she will be getting another spanking immediately
following. She might not believe you but
you’ll prove it to her.
Step 5: As soon as the
sex is done, have her place the palms of her hands on top of the bed or desk or
dresser and protrude her bottom outward.
Give her at least 25 more lashings with the belt and talk through each
lashing. Example: “This is for being cranky at home.” Lash 1.
“This is for using foul language out of anger.” Lash 2.
“This is for a negative attitude.”
Lash 3. She needs your verbal
proclamation of her misbehavior in order to make a solid connection in her mind
that this is what happens when she behaves this way.
Before bedtime it is very important that you follow this
procedure again only you can substitute the belt for a quieter tool if you have
others in the home who might overhear.
If you want to see changes in the wife’s behavior she must be paddled
first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Do this for two weeks and then you will be
able to taper it down to once or twice a week.
I promise it works. I’ve been feeling light and free and our
home has been peaceful and our marriage has been incredibly wonderful. Spank that stress away, it’s good for your
heart too!
Ahh, the lovely wonders of Stockholm Syndrome.
ReplyDeleteFor real!! I understand domestic discipline in some of its forms, and I get spankos and kink, but what's described above has no underlying sense of care and affection. It's just scheduled abuse.
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